A Mother’s Journey to Spotlight
There was a time in my life when I was literally coding dreams with one hand and cradling my child in the other. I was living two full-time roles — a software engineer by profession, a mother by heart.
Each morning began with a rush. Each night ended in guilt.
Client calls, school pickups, deadlines, dinner plans — I tried to balance both worlds with everything I had. But slowly, the weight of it all started to break me.
I made a decision that didn’t come easy — I quit my job.
I told myself that staying at home would bring peace. But what followed wasn’t calm — it was chaos of a different kind. A silent storm that crept in during the long, repetitive days. The routines were endless. The spark I once carried? It began to fade.
I had once cracked codes. Now I was struggling to decode who I was anymore.
I missed the thrill of professional achievements. But the demands of motherhood left no room for myself. My mind was a constant loop of to-do lists — groceries, doctor appointments, school projects, birthdays. There was no “me time,” no space to even breathe.
And then came the whispers:
“She left her career?”
But no one asked what I left behind.
I’d watch others climb the ladder of success while I sat folding clothes, silently wondering, What about me?
Then, in the quiet of an ordinary afternoon, a question stirred something in me —
What if I don’t need a desk to have a career?
What if my voice — my energy — could become my new strength?
And that was the spark. From being unseen and off-stage, I chose to stand in the spotlight.
I became a host. An emcee. Not just someone who holds a mic — but someone who holds attention, emotion, and presence. I discovered a new version of myself — bold, alive, and truly me.
Today, I don’t just speak — I connect.
I don’t just host — I hold space.
Every line I deliver on stage is rooted in the chapters I’ve lived — chapters of love, guilt, sacrifice, doubt, courage, and ultimately, transformation.
I’m not just a working mom. I’m not just a stay-at-home mom.
I am a woman who paused, redefined herself, and came back louder, clearer, and more powerful than ever.
And along this journey, I carry my past with immense pride — I was honored with a State-Level Gold Medal during my school years, recognized as one of the brightest minds in my academic circle, and built a strong foundation with a decade of rich experience in the software engineering industry.
But the proudest title I now own? A woman who dared to start again.
Do I have a fixed plan? Honestly — no.
And I like it that way.
Some of the best things in my life didn’t come from planning — they came from following my instincts. So that’s what I’m doing now: staying open, staying ready, and welcoming magic when it arrives.
Because I’ve learned something through it all —
Sometimes, the comeback is more powerful than the setback.